(Aug. 2010) I am a male and find myself wanting something up my anus, especially during masturbation. Is this normal?  I am not gay and do not want to have sex with another male.... Full Question & Answer

(Jan. 2010) Why do men need condoms when they are gay?... Full Question & Answer

(Aug. 2009) I am in a relationship for 3 months now, and my boyfriend told me that he is slightly bisexual, and has a strong preference for women. I'm just confused and I don't know... Full Question & Answer

(Jun. 2008) My wife has talked openly before that she is attracted to other women. We have talked about this subject quite a bit. She only likes lesbian porn, and I have caught her... Full Question & Answer

(Mar. 2008) I am a 30 year old gay male who has been in a strong, stable relationship for 11 years now with a 34 year old guy. The relationship between me and my... Full Question & Answer

(Jan. 2008) I am conservative and my boyfriend is out there. He would like us to participate in a threesome with another woman, but I am not too happy about this. One of... Full Question & Answer

(Dec. 2007) I have been married for 16 years, and just found out that my husband is into submission and spankings.  I am really trying to please him but it hurts. Can a person train... Full Question & Answer

(Nov. 2007) Hello Love & Heath experts: I am a 29 year old, straight male. I really don't know any other way to put it other than being blunt: I want to experience... Full Question & Answer

(Nov. 2007) We are a gay couple and have been together for 8 years. We have had safe sex with several partners before. We have both recently been tested and are STD free... Full Question & Answer

(Oct. 2007) I am a 46 year old single male and there are times when I enjoy having sex with another guy, does that mean that I am gay?... Full Question & Answer

(Sep. 2007) Hi there, I am desperately in need of advice to save my marriage. I have been with my husband for 11 years and we have a daughter. My husband has a huge... Full Question & Answer

(Sep. 2007) How would I know if I am gay? I haven't been with a woman but I fantasize that I have sex with one in particular. I have been very attracted to... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2007) My husband and I are in a polyamorous relationship with another married couple. The problem is after my husband is with his girlfriend, or she is visiting us for the weekend,... Full Question & Answer

(Jun. 2007) Hi, I am a 28 year old gay male. I have always had a real hard time having good sex with guys that really are into me. The only time I... Full Question & Answer

(May. 2007) I'm very concerned about my boyfriend. He is in his 40's but recently I found out he has been looking at cross dressers and other related things online. I don't want... Full Question & Answer

(Feb. 2007) My wife and I have been married for over 10 years. I have tried to introduce adult videos into our relationship. She is resistant at first but as soon as I... Full Question & Answer

(Sep. 2006) I've met someone who is very turned on by oral stimulation followed by ejaculation on my face.  I'm interested in motivation - is this activity typically a humiliation technique or just... Full Question & Answer

(Aug. 2006) I am a 20 year old male and I am completely straight. I have wondered if I had any gay feelings but after searching long and hard I know I don't. However, I do enjoy my prostate being... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2006) Hello Dr. Joy, My wife and I have been married for 14 years and have worked through a number of problems, both with counseling and on our own, but we want... Full Question & Answer

(Jun. 2006) My husband & I have been married for 16 years.  Over that time we have explored his need for crossdressing, and I have done so openly and willingly. For 16 years... Full Question & Answer

(May. 2006) I just started dating a woman and she told me she has genital herpes. She said that none of her girlfriends in the past have gotten it from her. I've looked... Full Question & Answer

(May. 2006) I sent in a question about my fetish for women in pantyhose. The expert who answered suggested that I might simply be attracted to women who are sex negative, because I... Full Question & Answer

(Sep. 2005) I have a question for you, I'm in my mid-20s and have a fetish for women in pantyhose. Problem is I'm currently single and haven't had a girlfriend in about 2... Full Question & Answer

(Aug. 2005) Dear Deb, I've been finding myself very attracted to one of my new co-workers. We've had very few actual encounters, but I see him looking at me all the time. I... Full Question & Answer

(Aug. 2005) Is it really that bad to have an extramarital affair? My marriage has never been satisfying in any way, but my husband is not a bad man. He's a good provider... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2005) Dear Deb, I am about to get married. My fiancé and I are very happy, in love, and have a fantastic sex life. I have no problems on that front. My... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2005) I am a 38 year old man and have been married for 14 years. My question is I like to wear sexy clothes and high heels, bras and women's clothing during sex... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2005) Dear Love & Heath Information Staff, I'm a fine guy, tall and slender. I like girls and girls like me and so I have been together with a lot of... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2005) Dear Deb, My girlfriend is the only person I have had sex with in the last four years. I think of myself as a lesbian, but I am also attracted to... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2005) Dear Deb, I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for nine months now and we spend at least two nights a week together. Recently, I found a thong and a... Full Question & Answer

(Jun. 2005) I am a 22 year old single male. I don't find myself drawn to either females nor males. Instead, I am finding myself confused about my own identity. For months now... Full Question & Answer

(Jun. 2005) I have recently become very submissive to my wife. She introduced me to the bi scene. I am now having sex with a guy every day. I love my wife and... Full Question & Answer

(Mar. 2005) I've never really thought that I might have homosexual tendencies.  I've always been attracted to women, have had several relationships (some good, some bad-like most people I assume). My question: since the... Full Question & Answer

(Feb. 2005) I am female, and my lover and I would really like to try spanking (we are both in our 40's), but he wants to make sure that I have an orgasm.... Full Question & Answer

(Oct. 2004) I have a serious mole fetish (e.g. I'm attracted to a lovely young lady who has a hairy mole on the right-hand side of her upper lip). I just have a... Full Question & Answer

(Sep. 2004) Are cock plugs safe to use. This is the first time I ever heard of cock plugs, but if it is safe I would like to bring one into my submissive partner... Full Question & Answer

(Aug. 2004) I'm a 19 year old female, and I have been dating my boyfriend for about 6 months now. He has been with a lot of girls in the past, and he... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2004) Hi there! I have a question in regards to butt plugs. I enjoy living a BDSM lifestyle, and I often read stories that talk about a partner forced to wear a butt plug for... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2004) My husband and I have been married for 10 years.  Just recently we starting making love with my toys.  I found it strange when he asked me to use my toy... Full Question & Answer

(May. 2004) I have now for sometime had a fantasy of being spanked why should I fanatise about this. I find mastubation when watching others being spanked better than any sex. Do you... Full Question & Answer

(May. 2004) I have a recurring fantasy about catching my wife having oral sex with some unknown man...I dont stop her, I watch and become intensely aroused. Is this a normal fantasy for... Full Question & Answer

(May. 2004) My question is one of an inability to ejaculate during sex. I can achieve erection, can even maintain it longer then alot of my fellow males in our swinging lifestyle. I... Full Question & Answer

(Apr. 2004) I am 37 years old male and I have a foot fetish. Or, at least I think I do. I like wearing ballet slippers, swim fins, sandels, tights or other tight... Full Question & Answer

(Apr. 2004) I am male and often fantasize about performing oral sex on a penis. I am not homosexual nor am I attracted at all to men. It is more of a desire... Full Question & Answer

(Apr. 2004) For the last year I have been fantasizing about having group sex or maybe even going to a swingers convention (if there is such a place). Recently while shopping in the... Full Question & Answer

(Mar. 2004) Last summer my girlfriend and I decided we wanted to find a sex buddy that we could become close with... after talking about it for a few weeks we both realized... Full Question & Answer

(Mar. 2004) Hi, I am a 44 year old male. My girlfriend of 3 months is also 44. We are both healthy, been through some bad relationships. We are both what is described... Full Question & Answer

(Mar. 2004) I am a man in my 50's and lately have become attracted to some, though not all, transsexuals. I am not attracted to other men and still am attracted to regular... Full Question & Answer

(Mar. 2004) I am a straight male nudist and married, I am 42 years old. When the word got around this small area that I stayed naked at home and did not put... Full Question & Answer

(Mar. 2004) My husband and I have a very healthy and satisfying sex life, we both keep it interesting by trying to keep in tune with what each of us enjoys during sex.... Full Question & Answer

(Feb. 2004) I am desperate for an answer. I am a happily married woman, but when I was in high school a few of my girlfriends and I would engage in sexual activity.... Full Question & Answer

(Feb. 2004) I am a 38 year old male who has been married for 13 years. While I find my wife attractive and we have great sex I find myself equally attracted to... Full Question & Answer

(Feb. 2004) My husband is stationed in Iraq right now and he likes me to "talk dirty" to him via email. I don't feel that I'm good at it, especially because he wants... Full Question & Answer

(Feb. 2004) I am a woman in a very loving relationship with another woman. This is my first (and last) same sex relationship. I love her with all my heart, but there is... Full Question & Answer

(Jan. 2004) My boyfriend has recently started talking about wanting to go to a swingers club and/or have a threesome. I am totally against this idea, because I want a monogamous loving relationship... Full Question & Answer

(Jan. 2004) Are there any long term effects of anal sex? How should my partner and I start the experience of anal sex?... Full Question & Answer

(Jan. 2004) I am 44 and married for 22 years. I have had a foot and leg fetish as long as I can remember. I am not very vocal when it comes to... Full Question & Answer

(Dec. 2003) I'm a male with a normal sexual attraction to females. For a while, I've had a fetish for women's underwear. Is this normal?... Full Question & Answer

(Dec. 2003) If a man wants to grow breasts is it safe to take pills to change a man’s body into working like a woman's?  ... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) I've recently been tuning into my submissive tendencies, and in doing so, I've discovered that someone I've become very close to online is a Dom. He has instructed me to find... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) I am gay. I like oral sex with my friend. Oral sex is it risky to catching HIV/AIDS. My partner is free from these diseases. Anything to worry about oral sex.... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) Can I get AIDS from having oral sex with another woman, and how can I prevent it?... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) I was wondering what kind of sexual diseases can women give to each other.... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) A few months back my wife went out with a friend of hers to a night club. while in the club my wife started drinking and ended up kissing another woman... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) I have a question regarding biological differences between homosexuals and heterosexuals. I read your column concerning sexual orientation and the causes of homosexuality. While you did acknowledge the fact that there... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) I am an 18 year old openly bisexual female, and it intimidates my boyfriend. He knows it's a part of me that can't be changed, but he's not sure how to... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) we have been married for 11 months (we both are 34) and my husband just told me that 'he thinks' he might be bisexual because he gets aroused by looking a... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) I want to know if I an straight, Bisexual or curious. I am attracted to women without a doubt but want to know if I am attracted to men in any... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) Dear sir I'm from Pakistan a homosexual person (gay). In this December I'm going to marry, I can't avoid my marriage at any cost due to custom and social problem in... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) I am a gay male and am only recently diagnosed with Asperger Syndrome. I thought being gay was tough (I "came out" late; at 29). Asperger Syndrome is another situation where... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) Anal sex or masturbation with dildo's, vegetables and anything not nailed down. What is the best way to stretch the rectum? Can dildo-ing the ass have any health risks? Everyday I... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) Ever since i was young i have had a fascination about rubber balloons and have been using them for masturbating since i was a teen and now married i find it... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) i was a foot fetishist and masochist. When i got 18 my fantasies began to disturb me and i tried to repress my sexual feelings. i did this for months and... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) I have been pleasing myself for about 4 years now and for awhile now, i have been doing it everynight, i was wondering if that was normal. Also i wanted to... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) I am a 22 year old male. I've been listening to talk radio in the mornings and last week, I heard them talk about anal masturbation. I've of course heard about... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) I'm a 21 year old gay guy, I've been unable to have anal sex for about a half a year now..its way too painful...I feel dry and sore all around my... Full Question & Answer