(Sep. 2010) Hi, I am a 27 year old single male. I have never had sex in my life and didn't masturbate until mid last year. I have been worried since a long time about... Full Question & Answer

(May. 2010) Hi, my husband and I have been together for 11 years but have only been married for less than two. He's 47, I'm 44 and before we got married we had... Full Question & Answer

(Apr. 2010) I am a 31 year old woman who has been married 11 years and sexually active for 15. My husband was not my first sexual partner, but I have usually been... Full Question & Answer

(Aug. 2009) I love my boyfriend very much. I have known him four years, sex is the greatest, he wants to get married, have kids, is very generous, and he has always been... Full Question & Answer

(Apr. 2009) I am 22 years old, and have been married for almost two years. I love my husband and he is the only serious relationship I have ever been in. Lately I... Full Question & Answer

(Jan. 2009) Although I have always had a strong sexual drive, I have met very few men in whom I'm sexually interested, who are also interested in me. I would really like to... Full Question & Answer

(Jun. 2008) I am married to a wonderful man who is 11 years older than me. We have a fairly good sex life to which we have added sex toys and couple porn.... Full Question & Answer

(Nov. 2007) Hello Love & Heath experts: I am a 29 year old, straight male. I really don't know any other way to put it other than being blunt: I want to experience... Full Question & Answer

(Sep. 2007) Hi there, I am desperately in need of advice to save my marriage. I have been with my husband for 11 years and we have a daughter. My husband has a huge... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2007) My ex has a fetish. He gets turned on by girls who wrestle and are plump. When we started going out he told me about it, but did not express that... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2007) As I've grown older (I'm 52) I've noticed that I require more verbal stimulation during sex with my wife in order to orgasm. This stimulation usually takes the form of my... Full Question & Answer

(Jun. 2007) I am 47 and my husband is 48. We are together 7 years and married one year. During our first two years of going out together I found very explicit emails... Full Question & Answer

(Apr. 2007) My boyfriend of 5 years (our ages are 40-50 years) has a fantasy about me being with him and at least one other male. While I can admit it's a sexy... Full Question & Answer

(Mar. 2007) I enjoy going online and looking at porn, but I've heard people on the radio talk about how that can ruin your sex life and make it so that you can't... Full Question & Answer

(Oct. 2006) My boyfriend has asked me on several occasions to watch porn with him! YUK! I feel as if he wants to watch another sexy female then why is he in bed... Full Question & Answer

(Sep. 2006) I've met someone who is very turned on by oral stimulation followed by ejaculation on my face.  I'm interested in motivation - is this activity typically a humiliation technique or just... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2006) Hello Dr. Joy, My wife and I have been married for 14 years and have worked through a number of problems, both with counseling and on our own, but we want... Full Question & Answer

(May. 2006) I sent in a question about my fetish for women in pantyhose. The expert who answered suggested that I might simply be attracted to women who are sex negative, because I... Full Question & Answer

(Feb. 2006) I have been widowed for 2 years. I have fallen for a guy who is 10 years my junior. He loves me as a friend and I am his closest confidant.... Full Question & Answer

(Sep. 2005) I have a question for you, I'm in my mid-20s and have a fetish for women in pantyhose. Problem is I'm currently single and haven't had a girlfriend in about 2... Full Question & Answer

(Aug. 2005) Dear Deb, My boyfriend is a guy's guy. He's super athletic, adventurous and an all-around sweetheart. The thing that is a little weird is he likes wearing women's thong panties. They... Full Question & Answer

(Aug. 2005) Dear Deb, My guy recently asked me to start talking dirty to him. I think I'm okay with the idea, but I honestly have no idea where to start. - Betty... Full Question & Answer

(Aug. 2005) Is it really that bad to have an extramarital affair? My marriage has never been satisfying in any way, but my husband is not a bad man. He's a good provider... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2005) Dear Deb, I have been with my boyfriend for three years, and we recently got in a discussion about our favorite sexual fantasies. He asked me for mine, and suggested that... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2005) Dear Deb, I am about to get married. My fiancé and I are very happy, in love, and have a fantastic sex life. I have no problems on that front. My... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2005) Dear Deb, I'm an engineer, so I'm surrounded by men at work. I've become interested in one of the guys I work with. He's constantly on my mind during the day... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2005) Dear Deb, Lately when my partner and I have sex, I find myself having fantasies that I'm actually with Angelina Jolie right when I'm about to reach orgasm. Does this mean... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2005) Dear Deb, I get turned on whenever I see a woman in a towel, that is, a woman on TV or in a movie. The feeling is especially strong if she... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2005) I am a 38 year old man and have been married for 14 years. My question is I like to wear sexy clothes and high heels, bras and women's clothing during sex... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2005) Dear Deb, I was searching through the archive and noticed that you didn't have any posts on my problem. See, the thing is- I love porn. I also have a girlfriend... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2005) Dear Deb, I've been living with my current boyfriend for seven out of the nine months we've been dating. We recently got engaged. I love him so much but find myself... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2005) Dear Deb, I am writing in response to one of your posts about jealousy. While I agree with a lot of what you said, I am really disappointed you didn't address... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2005) Dear Deb, My husband and I have spent two of the three years of our marriage apart because of our careers. We finally got an assignment where we can live together... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2005) Dear Deb, I have been married to my husband for six wonderful years. We've always been quite experimental in the bedroom. Recently however, he wants to role play every time we... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2005) Dear Deb, I'm really bothered by the fact that my husband looks at sex sites on the computer. I don't think he does it very often -- perhaps once or twice... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2005) I am 45 years old and have been married for 22 years. I would love to stay married for the rest of our lives. However, I’m concerned that my husband’s fetish... Full Question & Answer

(Jun. 2005) I have recently become very submissive to my wife. She introduced me to the bi scene. I am now having sex with a guy every day. I love my wife and... Full Question & Answer

(Apr. 2005) I have recently been enjoying phone sex with my boyfriend, but am looking for ways to spice up the conversation. I'm fairly conservative, not into hard-core porn or anything like that,... Full Question & Answer

(Apr. 2005) Hello, I have been seeing a man for 3 months - he has shared with me with a bit of encouragement his catalogue of naked women, which he considers art and... Full Question & Answer

(Mar. 2005) I'm not sure if this is the right category, but here goes. As long as I can remember, I've been attracted to big breasts. Although this isn't unusual, I think I... Full Question & Answer

(Feb. 2005) I am female, and my lover and I would really like to try spanking (we are both in our 40's), but he wants to make sure that I have an orgasm.... Full Question & Answer

(Nov. 2004) Can body piercing of private parts add extra stimulation for a couple? Are pierced nipples a sensual turnon for a woman?... Full Question & Answer

(Oct. 2004) I have a serious mole fetish (e.g. I'm attracted to a lovely young lady who has a hairy mole on the right-hand side of her upper lip). I just have a... Full Question & Answer

(Sep. 2004) In the past I have had boyfriends who get jealous if I put up photos of semi-nude males on a cupboard door. They have not otherwise been prone to jealousy. It... Full Question & Answer

(Aug. 2004) I'm a 19 year old female, and I have been dating my boyfriend for about 6 months now. He has been with a lot of girls in the past, and he... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2004) I have been with my husband for eight years now, and I recently found out he has been using online dating services to have sex chats with women who are a... Full Question & Answer

(Jun. 2004) My wife saw a commercial on the tv where a woman and her husband were role-playing her being a maid who was serving him food. She really liked the idea of... Full Question & Answer

(May. 2004) I have now for sometime had a fantasy of being spanked why should I fanatise about this. I find mastubation when watching others being spanked better than any sex. Do you... Full Question & Answer

(May. 2004) I have a recurring fantasy about catching my wife having oral sex with some unknown man...I dont stop her, I watch and become intensely aroused. Is this a normal fantasy for... Full Question & Answer

(Apr. 2004) I am 37 years old male and I have a foot fetish. Or, at least I think I do. I like wearing ballet slippers, swim fins, sandels, tights or other tight... Full Question & Answer

(Apr. 2004) I am male and often fantasize about performing oral sex on a penis. I am not homosexual nor am I attracted at all to men. It is more of a desire... Full Question & Answer

(Apr. 2004) For the last year I have been fantasizing about having group sex or maybe even going to a swingers convention (if there is such a place). Recently while shopping in the... Full Question & Answer

(Mar. 2004) Hi, I am a 44 year old male. My girlfriend of 3 months is also 44. We are both healthy, been through some bad relationships. We are both what is described... Full Question & Answer

(Mar. 2004) I am a straight male nudist and married, I am 42 years old. When the word got around this small area that I stayed naked at home and did not put... Full Question & Answer

(Mar. 2004) My husband and I have a very healthy and satisfying sex life, we both keep it interesting by trying to keep in tune with what each of us enjoys during sex.... Full Question & Answer

(Feb. 2004) I am desperate for an answer. I am a happily married woman, but when I was in high school a few of my girlfriends and I would engage in sexual activity.... Full Question & Answer

(Feb. 2004) My husband is stationed in Iraq right now and he likes me to "talk dirty" to him via email. I don't feel that I'm good at it, especially because he wants... Full Question & Answer

(Jan. 2004) My boyfriend has recently started talking about wanting to go to a swingers club and/or have a threesome. I am totally against this idea, because I want a monogamous loving relationship... Full Question & Answer

(Jan. 2004) I am 44 and married for 22 years. I have had a foot and leg fetish as long as I can remember. I am not very vocal when it comes to... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) I've recently been tuning into my submissive tendencies, and in doing so, I've discovered that someone I've become very close to online is a Dom. He has instructed me to find... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) Hi! So glad I found this website!! Here are my concerns: My husband masturbates everyday..sometimes 2x a day! He usually does this when I'm home (he watches porn), when he thinks... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) I am a 19 year old female with a problem. I have for as long as I remember decided to abstain from sex til I get married. I masturbate a few... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) Ever since i was young i have had a fascination about rubber balloons and have been using them for masturbating since i was a teen and now married i find it... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) Is it normal to be obsessed with breasts? I mean my girl has small ones, my old girl had big ones and I constantly think/fantasize about them. I love tits and... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) i was a foot fetishist and masochist. When i got 18 my fantasies began to disturb me and i tried to repress my sexual feelings. i did this for months and... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) I have been pleasing myself for about 4 years now and for awhile now, i have been doing it everynight, i was wondering if that was normal. Also i wanted to... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) I asked my fiancee what he fantasizes about when he masturbates alone, and he admitted that besides me he also imagines other women (some that he actually knows). Since we've been... Full Question & Answer