(Sep. 2010) Hi, we are a married couple (M 42, F 39) with two kids. It appears that since my son was born (15 months ago) my wife has lost her sex drive,... Full Question & Answer

(Aug. 2010) I need help badly please!! I've been sexually active since I was 18, I am now 24. Since I started having sex until now, I have never had a problem with... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2010) My wife never starts an encounter. This really bothers me. She never denies me sex but never starts it either. I just wish she would come and take the bull by the... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2010) I would welcome help from ANY of your experts. I am 44, my boyfriend is 48, and we have sex every 3 months or so. He is a wonderful, loving, caring... Full Question & Answer

(Jun. 2010) I am 22 and female, have been married for 2 years. I am happily married but just a year ago my sexual drive has died.  I have no interest in it... Full Question & Answer

(May. 2010) I am dating a guy who I like a lot. He has problems with getting a hard-on. After the first time he cums he would like to keep going because he... Full Question & Answer

(May. 2010) Hi, my husband and I have been together for 11 years but have only been married for less than two. He's 47, I'm 44 and before we got married we had... Full Question & Answer

(Apr. 2010) I am a 31 year old woman who has been married 11 years and sexually active for 15. My husband was not my first sexual partner, but I have usually been... Full Question & Answer

(Mar. 2010) I'm a 35 year old woman, married for 10 years to a man who is an attentive lover and who would like to be having sex much more frequently than we do. The... Full Question & Answer

(Feb. 2010) I am 22 years old, male, and have had some serious stress with women over my life. I have had serious erection problems, and don't think I can get an erection... Full Question & Answer

(Feb. 2010) I am a 23 year old female and was in a bad car accident three years ago. It paralyzed me from the knees down. So I can feel between my legs during... Full Question & Answer

(Jan. 2010) My husband and I have been married for almost three years. We have 5 kids and I'm pregnant again. My husband seems withdrawn from starting sex. I'm the one who usually... Full Question & Answer

(Oct. 2009) Hello, I have been married to the same woman for 17 years.  She recently had a total hysterectomy and lost her sex drive.  Can she have a orgasm still, and what... Full Question & Answer

(Oct. 2009) Hi, I am a 45 year old male, divorced. I recently met someone I knew at school, we started dating, we fell in love and decided to get married (in 2009... Full Question & Answer

(Aug. 2009) I am in a relationship for 3 months now, and my boyfriend told me that he is slightly bisexual, and has a strong preference for women. I'm just confused and I don't know... Full Question & Answer

(Aug. 2009) I love my boyfriend very much. I have known him four years, sex is the greatest, he wants to get married, have kids, is very generous, and he has always been... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2009) I am a 28 year old female, happily married, but afraid of the sexual act. I love to imagine sex and surf the net on it.  I get turned on when I see... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2009) Hi, I don't really know how to ask this question but I'll try.  My wife and I have been married for 13 years and I have always made sure that she... Full Question & Answer

(May. 2009) I have recently read some of the discussion topics added to the page and thought they were very insightful. I was curious to see if you could possibly help me out... Full Question & Answer

(May. 2009) One day my husband and I were watching TV, when I started to play with his penis.  I got very upset because he did not get a hard on.  He told... Full Question & Answer

(May. 2009) My wife of 23 years was told she had an "atrophied vagina." How can I support her emotionally and what can she do medically? Obviously this is killing our sex life... Full Question & Answer

(Apr. 2009) My husband all of a sudden can't ejaculate during sex and it has me worried because it has never happened to us in seven years.  I asked him what's wrong and he... Full Question & Answer

(Mar. 2009) My problem is ED.  If I lose weight and start to work out, and my sugar gets back to normal, is it possible that the ED will go away?... Full Question & Answer

(Mar. 2009) Need help! I can't go as long while having sex as I can while masturbating. When I was last in a relationship, I used to have sex with my ex regularly,... Full Question & Answer

(Feb. 2009) My girlfriend of the last 7 months has always said that she has no clitoris, and most of the time it seems to be the case. She thinks that it is... Full Question & Answer

(Jan. 2009) Although I have always had a strong sexual drive, I have met very few men in whom I'm sexually interested, who are also interested in me. I would really like to... Full Question & Answer

(Jan. 2009) I really need your help!!!! When I lost my virginity, my boyfriend at the time had a large and wide penis (8 inches). We had sex almost everyday for a period of... Full Question & Answer

(Nov. 2008) I recently married for the second time, and I adore my husband. He's my best friend and has been for 25 years. However, when it comes to our sexual relationship, he/I... Full Question & Answer

(Oct. 2008) I am considered morbidly obese. Until recently this was not a problem, as I am a widow. I have now met a really nice man who is very quiet. I need... Full Question & Answer

(Oct. 2008) I am 21 and my fiancee is 18.  We have been together for a little over a year. First, I would like to say that I love her with all my... Full Question & Answer

(Oct. 2008) My penis is large and my partner's vagina is small. I am not able to insert mine into hers. Please advise me regarding this, how we may enjoy complete sex.... Full Question & Answer

(Sep. 2008) For some reason I have a hard time getting turned on. My husband tries to help me by kissing on my neck, ears, breasts, inner thighs, on the lips of my vagina,... Full Question & Answer

(Aug. 2008) My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years, and sexually active for about 4 years. At the beginning of our relationship, we had a lot of trouble verbally... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2008) I'm in my early 30's and enjoy being sexual. I think I've had an orgasm but I'm not sure. When I play with myself in order to get that satisfied feeling,... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2008) I'm a 34 year old man in reasonable shape. I have recently come to realize that I have a very overactive sex drive. Apparently that whole peaking thing means nothing to me.... Full Question & Answer

(Jun. 2008) I am a 30 year old woman and have been having sex regularly with my boyfriend for the last six years.  Now due to family pressure and circumstances in India I... Full Question & Answer

(Jun. 2008) My wife has talked openly before that she is attracted to other women. We have talked about this subject quite a bit. She only likes lesbian porn, and I have caught her... Full Question & Answer

(Jun. 2008) I am married to a wonderful man who is 11 years older than me. We have a fairly good sex life to which we have added sex toys and couple porn.... Full Question & Answer

(May. 2008) My husband and I have been married 23 years, and I discovered that over the past few years he has been masturbating to sexual HBO shows late at night. I feel... Full Question & Answer

(May. 2008) I am 53 and my husband is 65.  I have been going through menopause for at least 10 years.  My husband has a strong sex drive and I have no desire... Full Question & Answer

(May. 2008) Hi, I have a wonderful girlfriend (she is 27 years old), whom I love most, but she never reaches orgasmic climax. She always gets very close to it, but when she almost... Full Question & Answer

(Apr. 2008) I am a 36 year old female and I've been dating this guy for about two months - he's 37. Out of the 17 times we've had intercourse he's had an... Full Question & Answer

(Apr. 2008) I'm a 51 year old female with low sex drive after a surgical hysterectomy.  Is there anything I can do to increase my desire? Once stimulated I enjoy the sex.... Full Question & Answer

(Mar. 2008) I am a 30 year old gay male who has been in a strong, stable relationship for 11 years now with a 34 year old guy. The relationship between me and my... Full Question & Answer

(Mar. 2008) I have been with my boyfriend almost 4 years and a few months ago we decided to get married - he didn't propose or anything, but we talked about it. Around... Full Question & Answer

(Feb. 2008) I am a 44 year old married male. My wife has never had an orgasm via intercourse alone, with or without me.  She has always needed clitoral stimulation. It has also... Full Question & Answer

(Jan. 2008) I am conservative and my boyfriend is out there. He would like us to participate in a threesome with another woman, but I am not too happy about this. One of... Full Question & Answer

(Jan. 2008) I am a 48 year old woman married to a 50 year old man. We have sex generally about once a week. I would like it at least twice a week... Full Question & Answer

(Jan. 2008) I'm 8 months pregnant with my 4th child. My hormones are raging and I want sex all the time. But it's almost like my body has numbed the nerves in my... Full Question & Answer

(Dec. 2007) Hi, my girlfriend and I got married a couple of weeks back. Up until our wedding, we always used condoms during sex. Since the wedding we have been having sex without... Full Question & Answer

(Dec. 2007) I have been married for 16 years, and just found out that my husband is into submission and spankings.  I am really trying to please him but it hurts. Can a person train... Full Question & Answer

(Dec. 2007) My husband and I have been together 30 years. The problem is, we’ve stopped having sex – or any other intimacy between a loving couple. I feel like we’ve gotten into... Full Question & Answer

(Nov. 2007) My fiance and I have been together for 3 years now.  In the beginning things went a little astray.  I got pregnant, he cheated with a couple other women, and left... Full Question & Answer

(Oct. 2007) I have been married for almost two years now, most of which I do not see my husband. So when we do see each other, we don't get out of the... Full Question & Answer

(Oct. 2007) My girlfriend is largely asexual with me, usually deflecting when I try acting amorously, and outright refusing (or asking me to drop the matter until later, and then claiming to have... Full Question & Answer

(Sep. 2007) Hi there, I am desperately in need of advice to save my marriage. I have been with my husband for 11 years and we have a daughter. My husband has a huge... Full Question & Answer

(Sep. 2007) My boyfriend and I have been dating for a couple of years. We both have sex but the weird thing is, he does not kiss me. He always likes to start... Full Question & Answer

(Aug. 2007) Didn’t know where to turn…so here it goes…hoping you can help! Over the past couple of months, my boyfriend has been performing less and less oral sex on me and states... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2007) My ex has a fetish. He gets turned on by girls who wrestle and are plump. When we started going out he told me about it, but did not express that... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2007) My husband and I are in a polyamorous relationship with another married couple. The problem is after my husband is with his girlfriend, or she is visiting us for the weekend,... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2007) I can have a orgasm using my vibrator - except when my boyfriend is watching. I cannot ever have a orgasm with another person, even though I get really close.  This started over... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2007) Hi! I'm starting to get very worried about our sex life (or lack of it). I've been with the same wonderful man for about 2 years now. We've had some pretty... Full Question & Answer

(Jun. 2007) Hi, I am a 28 year old gay male. I have always had a real hard time having good sex with guys that really are into me. The only time I... Full Question & Answer

(Jun. 2007) I am 42, and have been divorced for over a year, and have not been with anyone. I also had a hysterectomy last December, but kept my ovaries. I am not... Full Question & Answer

(May. 2007) I have been with the man I am now married to for almost 6 years. In the beginning our sex life was nonstop. Even to the point where we both would... Full Question & Answer

(Apr. 2007) Why is it that I have no feeling during intercourse? I know "it" is there and yet I have no clue to what "it" feels like. Am I lacking hormones or... Full Question & Answer

(Mar. 2007) I am 22 and have Spina Bifida.  My fiance has this also...I have been sleeping with him since we started dating, and I don't know if he can ejaculate, have an... Full Question & Answer

(Mar. 2007) Hi, I'm a 28 year old female.  I have a problem with my sex life after I had my baby.  I don't have the same feeling I used to have during sex. ... Full Question & Answer

(Feb. 2007) My wife and I have been married for over 10 years. I have tried to introduce adult videos into our relationship. She is resistant at first but as soon as I... Full Question & Answer

(Feb. 2007) I hope all is well with you all. Basically my situation is that I'm a 34 year old male virgin from NYC. (I hope this doesn't draw parallels to the 40-yr... Full Question & Answer

(Feb. 2007) I can't enjoy my husband performing oral sex on me - I feel it's nasty. I enjoy giving oral sex to him but not receiving it. What can I do to... Full Question & Answer

(Nov. 2006) I have been trying to figure out how to get my boyfriend to loosen up more. I have reason to believe he is much more relaxed sexually than I think, only... Full Question & Answer

(Oct. 2006) Please help! I have been married for almost ten years, and for the past several months my days have been very stressful. Work/school and family are becoming overwhelming. Well, I have... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2006) Hello Dr. Joy, My wife and I have been married for 14 years and have worked through a number of problems, both with counseling and on our own, but we want... Full Question & Answer

(Jun. 2006) I am a diabetic, would it be possible for me to take Viagra? I love my girlfriend so much, but when we make love I cannot keep an erection.... Full Question & Answer

(May. 2006) Hi, I am a 34 year old man.  I have dated several wonderful women, many that I could imagine spending my entire life with except for one thing: I become sexually... Full Question & Answer

(May. 2006) I am 32 and engaged to a 28 year old man. We have been together for two years and continue to have problems with premature ejaculation. We have tried various techniques,... Full Question & Answer

(May. 2006) I sent in a question about my fetish for women in pantyhose. The expert who answered suggested that I might simply be attracted to women who are sex negative, because I... Full Question & Answer

(Mar. 2006) My husband and I have been married for 2 years now. He is impotent and after numerous discussions he has now started getting a little intimate with me. Every time I... Full Question & Answer

(Mar. 2006) I'm a 20 year old male and although my partner seems to be enjoying sex very much, I'm not. I'm generally more turned on by doing things to her, but I... Full Question & Answer

(Jan. 2006) I recently (7 months ago) started dating and am now living with my 28 year old boyfriend. Mr. Right is a bit younger, but sweet, smart, good listener and a great lover.... Full Question & Answer

(Jan. 2006) Lately while having sex I have been getting really bad cramps in my legs, which stops the action and I think turns my partner off. What can I do to prevent... Full Question & Answer

(Dec. 2005) Hello, I'm a 35 year old female having sex with a 58 year old male. The problem is I suspect he is on Viagra, but he says he is not. Just... Full Question & Answer

(Dec. 2005) I have been with my boyfriend for over 10 years now, but we have never had intercourse. The pain of the first time scares me to death. We have practiced with... Full Question & Answer

(Dec. 2005) I am 57 years old and always enjoyed sex immensely, but now after menopause, my clitoris seems to be disappearing or becoming smaller and I don't enjoy sex as much as... Full Question & Answer

(Dec. 2005) My husband has a little problem. When we're involved in intercourse without a condom he has to stop because it burns and when he pulls out his penis is sometimes purple... Full Question & Answer

(Nov. 2005) Hi, I am 36 years old. For the past 6 years for the first time I have had a man in my life who cares if I have an orgasm. Until recently... Full Question & Answer

(Nov. 2005) I'm a 28 year old shy male and still a virgin.  The older I get the less confident I feel about intercourse.  Will women laugh at my inexperience?... Full Question & Answer

(Nov. 2005) My wife and I are 30 and have been married for eight years. Sex has always been great, for me at least. Lately we've been having communication problems, we've never really... Full Question & Answer

(Nov. 2005) My husband withholds emotions & sex from me until he decides he's ready. It can be days, sometimes months before we have sex. I am so sexually frustrated I have been... Full Question & Answer

(Oct. 2005) I have a foreskin that has a stretch capability that is far less than my fat erection requires. This gives me no problem when flaccid, and is even very stimulating during... Full Question & Answer

(Oct. 2005) I am female in my early 30's.  My boyfriend and I have anal sex.  I don't know what has happened but that is all he wants to do now.  I admit... Full Question & Answer

(Sep. 2005) I have a question for you, I'm in my mid-20s and have a fetish for women in pantyhose. Problem is I'm currently single and haven't had a girlfriend in about 2... Full Question & Answer

(Aug. 2005) Dear Deb, I have been with my man for fifteen years now and he recently asked me to start giving him blowjobs. The problem is that I don't really like to... Full Question & Answer

(Aug. 2005) Dear Deb, I've been dating this guy for a while now and he's really nice. I think we're really compatible except for the fact that I hate the way he kisses.... Full Question & Answer

(Aug. 2005) Dear Deb, I recently had sex with this guy, a one-night stand, and I haven't heard from him at all. What am I supposed to do now? - Marie... Full Question & Answer

(Aug. 2005) Dear Deb, I'm having a hard time making my ex go away so I can start seeing other guys. What can I do? - Julie... Full Question & Answer

(Aug. 2005) Dear Deb, I'm an attractive man and most of my friends would describe my personality as fantastic. They say I'm caring, kind, smart, witty, and interesting. I also have a flare... Full Question & Answer

(Aug. 2005) Dear Deb, I have a friend who's been dating a woman for about two years, and they're going through major issues. I've spent some time with this girl on a few... Full Question & Answer

(Aug. 2005) Dear Deb, I have been dating a man for three months, who I've known for five. We met online, and arranged a meeting after two months of chatting. The main issue... Full Question & Answer

(Aug. 2005) Dear Deb, I've been seeing the same guy now for just over six months. I recently found out that he has previously had sex with many of his (still current) female... Full Question & Answer

(Aug. 2005) Dear Deb, I met a man online and have been doing the long-distance thing with him since. We have many things in common and have been toying with the idea of... Full Question & Answer

(Aug. 2005) Dear Deb, I've been seeing this guy I like a lot, and the feelings are reciprocated. There are still a few problems for our future together, though. I'm African-American, and he's... Full Question & Answer

(Aug. 2005) Dear Deb, I just recently began dating this man and our kisses feel like he's trying to swallow my face. He seems to push his tongue as deep into my mouth... Full Question & Answer

(Aug. 2005) Dear Deb, I think your column is fabulous. Your advice is always on-point. I have a pretty easy one for you: I just had some dental work done on a front... Full Question & Answer

(Aug. 2005) Is it really that bad to have an extramarital affair? My marriage has never been satisfying in any way, but my husband is not a bad man. He's a good provider... Full Question & Answer

(Aug. 2005) I'm only 22 and cannot enjoy sex 90% of the time with my boyfriend because it is so painful. I always experience a burning sensation at the opening of my vagina,... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2005) Dear Love & Heath Information Staff, I'm a fine guy, tall and slender. I like girls and girls like me and so I have been together with a lot of... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2005) Dear Deb, I was searching through the archive and noticed that you didn't have any posts on my problem. See, the thing is- I love porn. I also have a girlfriend... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2005) Dear Deb, I have been with the same guy for nine years now but he will not stop cheating on me. I've tried to leave him, but every time he comes... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2005) Dear Deb, My husband and I have been married for two years, and he has always preferred blowjobs to intercourse. We only have sex once a week and he refuses to... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2005) Dear Deb, My fiancé and I are getting married in December. We just had a baby, and since the birth we haven't been having a lot of sex. My fiancé really... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2005) Dear Deb, My husband and I have spent two of the three years of our marriage apart because of our careers. We finally got an assignment where we can live together... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2005) Dear Deb, I'm really bothered by the fact that my husband looks at sex sites on the computer. I don't think he does it very often -- perhaps once or twice... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2005) My husband and I are 18 yrs apart in age. I'm 30, he's soon to be 48. My sex drive has always been greater, or at least I think so. Recently, during sex,... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2005) I am 45 years old and have been married for 22 years. I would love to stay married for the rest of our lives. However, I’m concerned that my husband’s fetish... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2005) I never used to be insecure about my looks until after I had my two children. Due to my pregnancies I obviously have stretch marks and I have a scar from... Full Question & Answer

(Jun. 2005) I am a 22 year old single male. I don't find myself drawn to either females nor males. Instead, I am finding myself confused about my own identity. For months now... Full Question & Answer

(May. 2005) I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year and a half now. My question is - he has never had an orgasm with me...whether it's sex, oral... Full Question & Answer

(Mar. 2005) I am 32, my new girlfriend is 45. We are very intimate, but it seems she is aware of her entrance into menopause, and it weighs on her mind. I am... Full Question & Answer

(Mar. 2005) My wife and I have been married for nearly sixteen years. She was raised in a very strict religious area of the country. She was taught early in life through her... Full Question & Answer

(Feb. 2005) I am a 40 year old female. I met my husband on the internet and though we exchanged pictures a lot I didn't realize how incompatible our bodies are for a... Full Question & Answer

(Feb. 2005) It has been months since I had sex with my wife of 18 years. I'll be 49 in November. I can't get hard anymore! I try to masturbate when I shower, I get semi-hard for... Full Question & Answer

(Jan. 2005) I have been taking Zoloft for a few months now to help deal with depression, but a few weeks ago I was put on a higher dosage. Since the higher dosage... Full Question & Answer

(Jan. 2005) Hi. I am 30 yrs old and my husband is 34. We have been married for 1 year, but together for almost 5 yrs. He had a heart attack 3 years... Full Question & Answer

(Dec. 2004) I am a 35 year old very attractive male (as I have often been told). I have been with my wife for 14 years.  We have been married for 6 years.... Full Question & Answer

(Nov. 2004) I am in a relationship with a shy man that is a lousy lover. We are the same age, but have different amounts of experience in love making. I've been in several... Full Question & Answer

(Nov. 2004) I am a 50 year old male, and my wife of 31 years is 48. We have a wonderful marriage and neither one of us has ever done anything with any... Full Question & Answer

(Oct. 2004) I recently read your response to a question regarding a heavier male not wanting to get into the missionary position with his partner for fear of 'squishing' her. Your response did... Full Question & Answer

(Sep. 2004) Hello, I have been with the same guy for more then two years. We use to have sex all the time but now its maybe twice a week. He said that... Full Question & Answer

(Sep. 2004) My boyfriend is diabetic and erections are few and far between. When he is able to get an erection he gets as far as the urge to ejaculate but can't then... Full Question & Answer

(Sep. 2004) I am 7 months pregnant and my husband wants nothing to do with sex right now. How can I make him interested even though I have a great big belly in the... Full Question & Answer

(Aug. 2004) Hello there, I am a 25 year old guy with a same age fiancee. We have been engaged for 1.5 years and thinking about getting married this summer. The problem is... Full Question & Answer

(Aug. 2004) I have too much precum that my condom will slip off. I have to use three to five condoms during sex. I take one off when I feel it slipping off,... Full Question & Answer

(Aug. 2004) Hello! I'm a 19 year old obsessive compulsive female and i have a problem. I cannot seem to use a vibrator more than once (part of my OCD), due to it seeming... Full Question & Answer

(Aug. 2004) I'm a 37 year old female. The only way I can orgasm is by stimulating my nipples and tightening my thighs together. But lately my orgasm is not as strong as... Full Question & Answer

(Aug. 2004) I've been married to a wonderful man for 3 years, and everything in our relationship is good...except sex. Our sex life is terrible. He's bored by my need to be on... Full Question & Answer

(Jul. 2004) My husband and I seldom have sexual intercourse anymore because he thinks he's too fat, is ashamed of his body, and is afraid he'll squish me. He likes the missionary position... Full Question & Answer

(Jun. 2004) I am 23 years old. I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years. We have a great relationship, but we don't have sex anymore. We talk about it openly, but... Full Question & Answer

(Jun. 2004) I have read several of the doctors’ responses to men utilizing porn. I am frustrated because many of the responses state that everything is ok for a man to utilize it.... Full Question & Answer

(May. 2004) I realize that this is a common problem, but I am at my wits end. My husband has a low sex drive, and I have a high one. Having sex once... Full Question & Answer

(May. 2004) My girlfriend confided in me a few weeks ago that she was raped when she was younger, I already knew that she went to a therapist, I just didn't know what... Full Question & Answer

(May. 2004) Im a C6-C7 incomplete quad, and my question is. My wife and I enjoy a active sex life, but the same old position of her on top is getting kinda old.... Full Question & Answer

(May. 2004) My question is one of an inability to ejaculate during sex. I can achieve erection, can even maintain it longer then alot of my fellow males in our swinging lifestyle. I... Full Question & Answer

(Apr. 2004) I have been with my wife 4 years, married for 1 1/2. She has recently lost all interest in sex, leaving me feeling frustrated and rejected. My mind does circles around... Full Question & Answer

(Apr. 2004) I have been married to my husband for about a year, we have been together for 4 years total. We have 2 children and a healthy sex life. I am quite... Full Question & Answer

(Mar. 2004) I am 24, and have a limited experience with sex. This is partly becasue i haven't met a man that i can trust. Trust is a very big issue for me,... Full Question & Answer

(Mar. 2004) My wife and I are both 35. We have been married for 15 years and until the last year or two I have never had any trouble getting her to orgasm.... Full Question & Answer

(Feb. 2004) Currently I take a serotonin antagonist for anxiety. The drug (Paxil) works wonders, but makes it almost impossible to ejaculate. I have tried all other SSRIs, but the same problem. Does... Full Question & Answer

(Feb. 2004) I am a woman in a very loving relationship with another woman. This is my first (and last) same sex relationship. I love her with all my heart, but there is... Full Question & Answer

(Feb. 2004) I have been married for 10 years now and have found that my husband has been viewing a lot of porn on the internet and in magazines. He also masturbates frequently... Full Question & Answer

(Jan. 2004) I really need your help! I have been with this girl for almost three years. The problem is that I haven't been able to fully satisfy her. I am not talking... Full Question & Answer

(Jan. 2004) In '93 I had a penile implant surgically implanted, which failed four years later. About 4 years after that I had the implant surgically repaired. In the meantime, I used Viagra... Full Question & Answer

(Jan. 2004) I cannot have an orgasm when receiving oral sex. My wife feels that she is doing something wrong, but I feel that the problem is me. Is this a common problem... Full Question & Answer

(Jan. 2004) I am 38, married four years and together eight. I don't have any sexual desire. I've talked with my husband but he told me it's in my mind. The problem is... Full Question & Answer

(Dec. 2003) I am a 33 year old woman who has been married for a year and a half. My problem is that I suffer from depression, and I have had abuse in... Full Question & Answer

(Dec. 2003) My boyfriend loves big breasts on a woman and I have them! He doesn't do anything to them, though, which I just don't understand. I try to tell him to caress... Full Question & Answer

(Dec. 2003) My 21-year-old boyfriend had a bad experience in the past giving oral sex to his girlfriend. Now he doesn't want to have oral sex. How can I get him to give... Full Question & Answer

(Dec. 2003) Ever since I had my third child (my husband's first), he doesn't want to have sex. Sometimes it seems like he doesn't even want me in his life at all. I... Full Question & Answer

(Dec. 2003) My boyfriend gets off more by sticking things in me other than his cock... what does this mean?... Full Question & Answer

(Dec. 2003) After the birth of my two children - I have found that I do not experience sexual pleasure the same way as before. I feel less "connected" to my partner -... Full Question & Answer

(Dec. 2003) Hello, my girlfriend and I have been going out for two years. We are both virgins and disease-free. Last night we tried to have sex with a condom, but we had... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) I have high sex desires but many times l can not maintain an erection. At times I go soft even still in the act, making me fake an orgasm for my... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) I have rapid premature ejaculation and was wondering if my vasectomy had anything to do with it? I have never had this problem until a year and a half ago. ... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) I'm a sexually active 25 year old male. About a year and a half ago i picked up a girl at a bar and brought her back to my hotel room.... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) When I have sexual intercourse for the first time in a week, I always ejaculate within a minute or two. Is this normal? When I recover from the first time, I... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) Premature or Rapid Ejaculation (less than a minute) 1. Come out very fast 2. After come out hard to get erection again. 3. Sometime I lost erection during sex. I don't... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) I'm not circumcised and therefore the top of my penis underneath the foreskin is very sensitive to the point that it hurts to touch it. This I can live with. But... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) I am a 30 years old male and I did not have an intercourse as yet. I am trying to overcome the "small penis obsession" and my latest girlfriend helped me... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) After my wife and I have sex, my wife complains of a burning sensation. This has occurred regularly and so I decided that possibly my sperm was causing her some harm. To... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) Can Zoloft help stop premature ejaculation? If yes, how long will it take to work and are there any harmful side effects? ... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) It seems that the majority of romantic relationships begin with physical attraction between two people. As a 25-year-old C4-5 quad in graduate school, it is difficult for me to get women... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) Sometimes after having sex i experience headaches and dizziness if i try to stand or sit up. could this be something physically wrong with me? ... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) I've got high blood pressure. Most of the medication that my doctor has prescribed keeps me from having proper erections. Right now, I've been on Ismelin (guanethidine) for a long time.... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) I am a 32-yr old male and I would like to ask you a question about something that I'm embarassed to discuss with my doctor: I have noticed that in the... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) I have had several prostate surgeries, and also several hernia repairs. During the last hernia repair the cord going to my right testicle got in the mesh and cut the circulation... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) I've heard that before you have sex with someone after spinal cord injury it is best to masturbate first to find out what feels good. Well I've tried and I'm not... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) I am a C6-7 incomplete quad with pretty good sensation and no trouble getting erections. The problem is, I can only ejaculate for about two days in a row, sometimes three.... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) First of all sorry for my poor english I wish you will be able to understand my question. I am living at Turkey, Istanbul. Maybe you dont know that we are... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) My girlfriend and I have been together for three years and have been unable to have sex. we have been trying consistently for the duration of our relationship, but fail each... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) Ok I have a few problems and I saw your website and was hoping you might be able to help. First of all I'm a 20 year old female and my... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) Hi, I am a 22 yr old male and i want to ask you a question. While surfing the net, i visit many websites which advertise pills for penis enlargement. Are... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) I have a problem. I hope this gets answered. Kind of the classic problem. Is there a way to augment the size of my penis? I'm 18, and assume/hope it will... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) I am an 18 year old male and recently me and my girlfriend of 6 months began having sex. I can attain an erection and give my girlfriend an orgasm, but... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) I'm 31, reasonably fit, with no illness/disability or medication. I'm a non smoker and very light drinker. I suffer from taking too long to orgasm with a partner. My first sexual experience... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) More or less my profile states my problem. It is inability to orgasm during sex, but can achieve orgasm thru masturbation. My partner and I love each other a lot, but... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) I am a 52 year old male with a problem regarding failure to orgasm/ejaculate. The problem started roughly a year ago, with the initial symptoms being an increase in the time... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) My problem is quite simple: cannot get my girlfriend to orgasm. I read your twenty tips, have tried most, will suggest that she read them, but nothing seems to work. I... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) I am a 20 year old male and I have just started a sexual relationship and have a few problems. First of all during my teenage years I could never masturbate... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) My problem is regarding oral sex with my boyfriend. He is unable to come to orgasm through oral sex. He has never received oral sex from any of his previous sex... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) Hello! I am not sure how to address this issue. My husband and I have been married for 13 years. He has been overseas for the last 9 months. Yes, he... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) Hi, I am a 28 year old guy and I have been attracting women into bed, but somehow very often they always leave or ask me to leave. This usually happens... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) The brain may be the most important sexual organ, but sometimes insertion is nice as well. What do you suggest for people who don't have, or can't sustain, erections? ... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) I'm trying to find some information on A-Sexuality...I believe my husband is. Am I using the right term here "A-Sexuality" meaning uninterested in sex? I love my husband very much, but... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) My first question is can I use some kind of local anesthesia (delay spray) to prevent premature ejaculation?? Is this harmful or not. If it is, then what else should I... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) I am a 35 year old male, I cannot ejaculate when I have sex with my new lover, but I can ejaculate when I masturbate.... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) Lately (2 weeks) my girlfriend and i have been having sex and i am only able to last a couple of minutes (two at most) then i come. it is upsetting... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) I usually sex with my wife but I see I intercourse with her 3 times continuously but when I doing intercourse I inject material within 1 1/2 minutes so plz tell... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) Hi I know that this isn't a real problem, but I was wondering: my boyfriend always says that his penis is small and stuff like that. It doesn't really matter if... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) Ok, I'm an 18 year old male and have had a hard time getting an erection when I'm with a girl. I know I'm not gay or anything, I am very... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) Hi, this question concerns something that has bothered me for a little while. My girlfriend and I have been having sex and when I penetrate she is very tight and I... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) Hi, I'm a 23 year old male...my problem is that when I have sex with my partner it becomes difficult for me to ejaculate, especially intra vagina ejaculation???... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) Hello, my penis is only 2.5 inches long ERECT. it makes me cry all the time. i am a 18 year old male, and i shouldn't cry because my penis is... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) On 2 occasions in the last few months, my wife and I have made love in the middle of the night. Afterwards she has been upset and when ask why, she... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) I am a gay male and am only recently diagnosed with Asperger Syndrome. I thought being gay was tough (I "came out" late; at 29). Asperger Syndrome is another situation where... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) As an autistic person how do you learn emotional intimacy, can you suggest somebody to help.... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) How do I teach my husband (who has high functioning Asperger's) better body/sexual communication awareness skills, without him feeling criticized and giving up? When we married, I knew he seemed sexually... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) I've never found sex that stimulating. I go for hours and get tired without climaxing. The only way I can climax is it I masturbate and then I can climax with... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) I am 23 years old, fairly healthy: I lift weights three times a week, eat well, drink lots of water (my only bad habit is smoking 10 cigarettes per day) I... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) Hi, i am an 18 year old male and am still a virgin, i recently met a girl the same age as me who i have been trying to get intimate... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) Hi, I am an American male living in China and I fell in love with a Chinese girl but we have a problem. I have a larger than normal penis and... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) I've got high blood pressure. Most of the medication that my doctor has prescribed keeps me from having proper erections. Right now, I've been on Ismelin (guanethidine) for a long time.... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) I am a 35 year old male, I cannot ejaculate when I have sex with my new lover, but I can ejaculate when I masturbate.... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) I am 33, I used to masturbate in a strange manner, I tried to forcedly ejaculate without erection while watching TV, for several years. Now I am going to marry and... Full Question & Answer

(Dec 2003) Hi, I'm a 23 year old male...my problem is that when I have sex with my partner it becomes difficult for me to ejaculate, especially intra vagina ejaculation???... Full Question & Answer