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How can a porn star screw awesome looking women for what seems like hours and not cum?Is it a trick, or is the film edited, or can some people just control it?

This question was submitted to the HSAB by an actual iFriends user, and answered for recent publication.


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Answered by Stephen L. Braveman, M.A.

Yes, men can control their ejaculation (cum) inevitability. Ejaculation control is a learned response that is easily taught through both modern, western sexuality education methods and through ancient sacred sexuality practices found throughout many parts of the world. There is an array of books, DVDs and classes available to teach men this, such as the DVDs "You Can Last Longer" and "The Art of Orgasm: The Multiply Orgasmic Man." At the same time, yes, the porn industry does indeed use film editing and "tricks" to give the appearance that a male porn star is capable of multiple ejaculations and prolonged sexual activity without losing his erection, regardless of how awesome looking the woman may or may not be. For example, many 15 minute porn film clips take hours or days to film. This is partially due to the fact that the male star may have to rest for hours between shoots so he may be able to obtain another erection and/or be able to ejaculate again. Furthermore, male porn stars are men first. It takes a lot to get an erection, have sex (many times with a stranger or with someone they are not attracted to), and "cum" on command by the director, all the while under hot lights and with cameras rolling and people watching. Many of the men in the films also report having to struggle with the fact that they are valued only for the size of their penis and the ability to have their penis "perform" for the cameras.

Keep in mind that porn is entertainment based upon fantasy. It is rarely an accurate depiction of what people do in their private sex lives. In other words, being a male porn star is really not as wonderful as it might seem.

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